| How To: Throw an After Party |
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Many just-married couples make their exit either during or at the end of the reception. It is, afterall, a very long and exhausting day. But if you're a party-all-night-long kind of couple, here are some tips for planning the perfect post-reception celebration. Everyone's Welcome Everyone invited to the reception should be invited to the after party (though many, especially the older guests, won't attend). But the list doesn't have to stop there. Some couples choose to invite friends or co-workers who weren't invited to the wedding itself because of space or financial constraints. Spread the Word Because the after party is fairly casual, written invitations aren't necessary. Spread the word at your bachelor/bachelorette parties and via your wedding website. You can also make an announcement at the end of the reception. If you're worried about people making other plans in advance, send after party information on a separate insert in the wedding invitation. Choose Your Style There are a few ways to approach an after party. You can spontaneously gather a group of revelers and head to the bar down the street. This is the least expensive and planning-intensive option, but you also have the least control. The second option is to get a private room at a bar or restaurant and cover the costs for your guests (opt for a 2 hour open bar if cost is a concern). In addition to drinks, be sure to serve food as your guests will be ready for a snack after hours of dancing. If money isn't a factor, and you really want to wow your guests, you can plan the after party as a second reception - complete with food, drinks, decor, and entertainment. This is clearly the most costly option, but probably the most fun as you can choose a completely different theme/color scheme/menu/type of entertainment for the after party. Think fun and modern. Location, Location, Location Make sure you choose a location that's convenient, especially for out-of-town guests who may not have transportation. Consider the hotel where most of your OOT guests are staying or a bar/restaurant close to your reception site. If you're having your reception in a hotel, you might be able to move to a smaller room or even a large suite depending on the number of guests you're expecting. Who Pays? There aren't "rules" for the planned after party yet, as it's still a fairly new concept. If your group simply heads out to a local bar, people will probably pay for their own drinks (and yours!). But if you're hosting the after party as an extension of the wedding day, your and your new hubby (or your parents) should plan to cover the costs. Have Fun! The after party should be all about relaxing, celebrating, and having fun. Don't stress about etiquette or details. If you want to wear your poofy dress and tiara all night long, go for it! Or, if you'd rather, slip into your favorite pair of jeans or a cute cocktail dress (depending on the location). Then party as late as you want, being sure to arrange for someone to call you in the morning if you have a plane to catch or a brunch to attend. |